Wife, Mom, Woman

A little bit of me, my life, and my thoughts.

One of those days January 21, 2009

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There are days and then there are days….

“I’m hungry” – Breakfast is so fresh the bowls are still on the table.

“We just ate. Go play please.”

“I’m hungry”

“Ok. Go downstairs and play. I’ll tell you when lunch is ready.” – It’s 10 am.

I send them all over the gate and begin cleaning up the kithchen.

“I’m hungry”

“Ok. I’ll make lunch. I’ll tell you when it’s ready” – It’s 10:01

They scurry back down the stairs. I mindlessly open the fridge, and there it is in all it’s glorious splendor. A forgotten bottle of Dr. Pepper. Hallelujah.  **Choir angels sing**  I pour a glass off this fabulous sanity saver.

“I’m hungry”

I finally give in and start making lunch. – It’s 11 am. Oh well. I pull out a bowl of chilli and start heating it. I realize this will only please about 20% of my kids. (There are six here during the day.) Back to the fridge where I find some spaghetti, maccaroni and cheese, and a burrito.

I’m thinking leftover day and an early naptime!

 

A Window With A View January 19, 2009

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We recently moved our bedroom into the ‘den’ at our house. It is a large room with a sliding glass door facing out the back of the house into the yard and the lake that is behind us. I love our yard. In the summer there are huge willow trees accross the lake, and it is so peaceful. Winter nights are so nice to cuddle up and watch the snow fall.

A few nights back I had quite a different view out my window. I wasn’t feeling well so I had snuggled up into bed early and was doing some Bible reading. Andrew was taking care of the last few nightime tasks for me.

He just got me a new puppy in celebration of our five year wedding anniversary (WOW). Training the puppy has been a task of course. And when Oliver (the puppy) sees you coming he gets startled and runs from you.

So, Andrew let the dogs out to go to the bathroom before bedtime. Porter obediently runs out, does his business and runs back in. Oliver needed a bit more coaxing to get out. Then he sat there. He just sits outside the door looking at you. Either unsure of what he is supposed to be doing or just too stubborn to do it. (He is very smart!)

Finally Andrew gives up and opens the door to let Oliver in but it isn’t happening. So Andrew stuffs his feet in my white, pink and purple ethnies and goes out after him.

In his boxer briefs.

So just to make sure you all have the right story… My husband is outside in the snow wearing his boxer briefs, a t-shirt, and my ethnies, bent over running in circles after my 10 week old poodle.

I am laughing so hard right now just thinking about it. He finally caught the dog and came in. I was feeling a little better too. Laughter is good medicine!

How could you be mad at this cutie?

How could you be mad at this cutie?

 

For all you moms January 16, 2009

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With two kids in a stroller…..

you have to check out this amazing giveaway. very easy to enter.

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God is holding my umbrella January 10, 2009

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We’ve all heard the expression “When it rains, it pours.” Well, I have been living the last several months in a thunderstorm.

While I will not take this moment to delve into my issues I will say there have been plenty. Some worse than others, all raining down.

When faced with trials I have found you can go to God first or last.  When you go to Him first you save yourself a lot of worry and frustration.

Some things I dwelt on and found this to be very unhelpful. Instead of solving my problems they only got worse. My thoughts ran in over drive and exaggerated the situations.

Other things I turned over to Him immediately. I can not explain the peace and comfort in doing this. At first I felt a little callous in the whole situation but then realized that true peace really does come if you can just “cast your cares upon him”. It still hurt, but peace came with the hurt.

Psalm 32:7 says “You are my hiding place; you will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.”

I read “God is holding my umbrella”.

 

Ants and Lazybones January 6, 2009

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Quite often in my spiritual life I find myself having what I like to call duh moments. Times when I have revelations that sound so obvious when I say them out loud, but they are totally new and wonderful to me.

I remember about a year ago I was really struggling with my children. Temper was short and it seemed there was always someone crying (including myself). In a meltdown between my three year old and I there finally came the answer. Throughout it all I knew that I needed to pray for help, but I wasn’t praying.

How foolish. How simple.

I immediately in the chaos around me (Axel was screaming, naked, and had poop smeared on his tushie) went into prayer and it was miraculous. I won’t say that I have never since then had my temper flair, but I was instantly lifted out of whatever was holding me in such a nasty place.

As I was thinking on my New Year’s resolutions, I had another one of those duh moments. I was specifically thinking about my goal to become more organized. “What do I need to do to be more organized?” I thought…. hmmm “I could do this, or that, or maybe this. Oh, I’ll do it later.” That’s when it hit me. The root of my organizational problems is procrastination!

I was reminded of Proverbs 6:4-11

4 Don’t put it off; do it now!
Don’t rest until you do.
5 Save yourself like a gazelle escaping from a hunter,
like a bird fleeing from a net.

6 Take a lesson from the ants, you lazybones.
Learn from their ways and become wise!
7 Though they have no prince
or governor or ruler to make them work,
8 they labor hard all summer,
gathering food for the winter.
9 But you, lazybones, how long will you sleep?
When will you wake up?
10 A little extra sleep, a little more slumber,
a little folding of the hands to rest—
11 then poverty will pounce on you like a bandit;
scarcity will attack you like an armed robber.

I giggle every time i read verse 4. “Don’t put it off; do it now!” It is possible I need to revise my resolutions a bit….

Praying you lazybones all take a lesson from the ants!